In spite of the fact I've learnt not to hand over my power and happiness on the basis of whether a Man loves me or not there's a distinct lack of someone special in my life felt for some time. 1) I'm a Man, 33, I live in Lusaka, Zambia 2) I'm here 3) I'm single 4) I'm eager to put an end to the awkward feeling of loneliness. Believe you're brave enough to make the first move.